Having the same arguments over and over again?
It’s pretty soul destroying and can leave both partners feeling utterly helpless and hopeless.
From space holding for couples I’ve realised that 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐟𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐚 𝐬𝐚𝐟𝐞 𝐬𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 - 𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐢𝐜 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧.
I’ve seen it time and time again and it is the most beautiful heart expanding experience to witness because that is exactly what is happening in that moment. 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 (& 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠) 𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞.
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